Two Roads, One Question: Buddhism and Vedanta on Who You Are

Session 14 · April 8, 2026 · Comparative Philosophy Series

Let me begin with the most important question of today's session — and perhaps of this entire series: why does a discussion about consciousness matter at all?

It is a legitimate question. On the surface, consciousness looks like an abstract philosophical topic with very little relevance to the practical demands of daily life. You have a job, relationships, responsibilities, ambitions, fears. What does the nature of consciousness have to do with any of that?

Everything, as it turns out.

The Discussion About Consciousness Is Already Happening

Here is the thing: you are already discussing consciousness every day. You just do it without calling it that.

'I am angry right now.' 'I feel successful.' 'I am not someone who fails.' 'I am exhausted.' 'I am a parent.' 'I am Indian.' 'I am not the kind of person who does that.'

Every one of these statements is a claim about what consciousness is. Every one is a claim about the nature of the 'I' that is angry, successful, exhausted, or identified. The question is not whether you discuss consciousness — you do, constantly, in every conversation you have about yourself. The question is whether you examine those claims, or simply accept them as obvious truths.

When you say 'I am angry,' you are making a very large claim. You are asserting that the totality of what you are can be summarized as an emotional state. Is that true? When the anger passes, do you cease to exist?

The most consequential discussion in any human life is the one about who 'I' actually am. Most people never have it. They let the answer be dictated by circumstance, habit, and social role — and then wonder why their sense of self feels so fragile.

Misidentification: The Root of All Suffering

Both Buddhism and Vedanta agree on this: the root cause of suffering is misidentification — associating yourself with something that is not the fullness of what you are.

The misidentification can happen at many levels. Identifying with the physical body: the moment the body deteriorates, ages, or becomes ill, the suffering is acute — because if 'I am my body,' then the body's decline is my decline. Identifying with a social role: the moment the role is threatened or removed, the distress is existential. Identifying with a belief system: the moment that system is challenged by reality, the threat feels total.

The narrower the definition of self you live inside, the more vulnerable you are to everything that threatens that definition. And everything threatens it eventually, because nothing in the world of name and form is permanent.

Conversely: the more expansive your understanding of who you actually are, the greater your resilience. If you know yourself to be something beyond the body, the illness of the body is painful but not identity-destroying. If you know yourself to be something beyond your professional role, retirement is a transition rather than an annihilation.

This is not merely a spiritual idea. It is a psychological reality with direct practical implications for how you recover from setbacks, handle change, and maintain your sense of self when your circumstances shift.

Nagarjuna's Buddhist Philosophy: Dependent Origin

Nagarjuna was a Buddhist philosopher of the second century CE whose work is considered by many to be the most sophisticated philosophical development in the entire Buddhist tradition. His central contribution: the doctrine of Madhyamaka, the 'Middle Way' between the extremes of permanence and nihilism.

His key concept: Pratityasamutpada — dependent origin. Nothing exists in isolation. Nothing has a permanent, standalone, unchangeable essence (what he calls svabhava). Everything arises in dependence upon everything else and everything is therefore empty (Shunyata) of independent, intrinsic existence.

This is not the same as saying nothing exists. It is saying that what exists is a web of relationships and processes — not a collection of solid, independently defined objects or selves.

Nagarjuna's insight: the belief that 'I' can exist in isolation from the rest of existence — secured, defined, protected, separate — is not only philosophically false but is itself the engine of suffering.

When you believe you can separate your wellbeing from the wellbeing of the whole, you set yourself against the grain of how things actually are. That friction is suffering.

Emptiness (Shunyata) and No-Self (Anatta)

Shunyata — emptiness — means that all phenomena, including the self, lack any fixed, permanent, or intrinsic essence. The self is not a solid object that can be located and permanently defined. It is an aggregate (what Buddhism calls the five skandhas): form/body, feeling, perception, mental formations (samskaras), and consciousness. These five are constantly changing, constantly interacting, never settling into a fixed identity.

Anatta — no-self — follows directly: if the self is an aggregate of constantly changing processes, there is no permanent, standalone self to be found. What you call 'I' is more like a river than a stone — a continuous flow of experience that maintains a recognizable pattern, but has no fixed, unchanging core.

This is the point where Buddhist and Vedantic philosophy meet — and where they diverge most dramatically.

Where Buddhism and Vedanta Agree — And Where They Part

Both traditions agree on the diagnosis: misidentification with a limited, isolated self is the root of suffering. Both agree that the solution involves seeing through this misidentification. Both agree that this seeing requires sustained inquiry and practice, not just intellectual understanding. Both agree that compassion and ethical living create the conditions for deeper insight.

Where they diverge is on the question of what lies beneath the misidentification.

Nagarjuna's Buddhism, working through the thinking mind, arrives at the conclusion that what lies beneath is emptiness — no inherent, standalone self anywhere in the web of phenomena. The liberation that comes from this recognition is the cessation of suffering through the dissolution of the illusion of a permanent, isolated self. This is accessed through the mind, through rigorous philosophical analysis and contemplative practice at the level of thought.

Vedanta proposes an additional layer. Beyond the thinking mind — beyond even the subtle mind that Buddhism has so carefully analyzed — there is something it calls Brahman: pure consciousness, absolute bliss, infinite awareness, whose nature cannot be fully captured at the level of thought because it is the ground from which thought itself arises.

In Vedanta, the self you discover when you thoroughly investigate the 'I' is not empty. It is full — limitlessly, completely, absolutely full. It is not the absence of a self; it is the presence of the self that is identical to the totality of existence.

Buddhism says: look carefully and you will find no permanent self — and that discovery is liberation. Vedanta says: look carefully and you will find a Self that is everything — and that discovery is also liberation. Perhaps they are describing the same recognition from different angles.

A Practical Question: Who Are You, Actually?

Here is the contemplation we closed with, and I want to pass it to you directly:

Write down how you define yourself. Not quickly, not casually — really sit with it. What do you call yourself? What does the 'I' in your head actually consist of?

Then ask: is this definition accurate? Does it reflect what you actually are? And does it translate into how you actually show up in the world?

Most people have never genuinely examined this. They operate with an inherited, mostly unexamined definition of self that was assembled from childhood experiences, social roles, others' opinions, and accumulated habits. The invitation of this entire series — from the very first session all the way to this one — has been to begin examining that definition. Not to destroy it. Not to transcend it. But to understand it clearly enough that you are no longer imprisoned in it.

Because the moment you stop being imprisoned in your current definition of self, you are free to be far more than it.

Closing Reflections on the Series

Over fourteen sessions, we have traveled a remarkable distance together. We began with the question of how to be a proper seeker — how to hold philosophy without blind faith or cynical dismissal. We moved through the building blocks of Vedanta, into the methods of inquiry, through the deep investigation of the sheaths of selfhood, up through the Mahavakyas and the four great statements, and now into comparative dialogue with one of the world's other great wisdom traditions.

The questions we have been sitting with — Who am I? What is the nature of suffering? What does it mean to be free? — are not questions that get answered once and filed away. They are living questions that continue to work on you, yielding new depths of understanding as the years go by and life brings its full range of experience to bear.

The philosophy we have studied is not primarily a set of answers. It is a set of lenses — tools for seeing more clearly, thinking more precisely, and living more freely. My deepest hope is that you carry these lenses forward and that they serve you well.

Thank you all for the quality of your engagement, your honest questions, and your willingness to sit with discomfort. Seventy-eight questions over the previous sessions. Each one a sign that the inquiry is alive and real. That is everything.

Abhishek Maheshwari · Comparative Philosophy Series · Session 14 of 14